18-25 Saddle River Road     Fair Lawn, New Jersey 07410    201-797-0502

www.ahavatachim.org

Uri Goldstein, Rabbi

Arnie Spier, President

Curved Up Ribbon: Celebrating our 30th Year
our

 

 

Parshat Mishpatim

 

February 2, 2008

 

 

Friday 2/1

 

Shabbat 2/2

Friday 2/8

 

Shiur

 

8:00 am

 

Shacharit

6:25 am

8:45 am

6:25 am

Shiur

 

3:50 pm

 

Candles

4:55 pm

 

5:04 pm

Mincha

5:00 pm

4:50 pm

5:05 pm

Ma’Ariv/Havdalah

 

6:00 pm

 

 

Please Do Not Speak During The Davening

 

Please be respectful. Do not enter or leave

the shul sanctuary during the d’var torah.

 
Things To Know This Shabbat

 

v      Mazal Tov to Sarah Yehaskel on the engagement of her son Josh to Ilana Schechtman of Memphis, TN.

 

v      Seudah Shlishit is being sponsored by the Brenenson family in memory of the yahrzeit of Aryeh's father, Reuvain ben Chayim.

 

v      Ilana Schwitzer’s family is planning a Hazkarah (memorial) for her mother, a”h, this Saturday night, at 8 P.M. at the home of my brother, Joseph Rahabi, 145 Falmouth Street, Manhattan Beach, Brooklyn, for those who wish to come.  Members may call Ilana at any time for any further information. 

 

v      Thank you in advance to the following beginning list of sponsors for next Saturday night’s event – Improvodoxication: "Chicago City Limits" Plotnick, Garfunkel, Stock, Spier, Riskin, Eis and Winchester Families; "Second City" Komet and Brenenson families, Michael Dworkis; "Saturday Night" Sonnenblick, Amrani, Lang, Vann, Agress, Smedresman, Latkin, Bernstein, Dworkis, Bickel, Lewissohn, and Graber Families.  Please contact Steve Winchester to sponsor or RSVP for this event next Saturday night.

 

v      Parents please be advised that the Youth Lounge is open for youth Minyan aged young adults only, following Davening.  It is not to be used by younger children.  Younger children belong either in groups or with their parents in shul, but not in the Youth Lounge unsupervised.

 

v      This year’s 30th Anniversary Dinner will honor our Founding Members: Hilda a”h & Richard Aarenau, Edith & Paul Cooper, Margo & Norman Greenstein, Irene & Howie Komet, Eita & Richard Latkin, Hanna & Jacob a”h Lewinson, Esther & Nathan a”h Miller, Sandy & Jay Rothschild and Sarah & Henry Stanger, at our annual Journal Dinner on Saturday March 8, 2008.  The journal deadline is rapidly approaching so please solicit ads and submit your vendor and personal ads as soon as possible.

 

v      Paul SanEmeterio is back in the hospital and is scheduled for a risky procedure on Friday.  Paul is not able to have visitors but the family has requested that Tehillim be recited for Yaakov ben Sarah and that we help brighten his room and spirits by sending him get well cards. Cards should be sent to his home at 4 Godwin Ave.

 

v      Please keep Gil Adler's safety in the Israeli army in mind when you light your Shabbat candles.

 

v      Please daven for the soldiers: Gilad (ben Aviva) Shalit, Ehud (ben Malka) Goldwasser and Eldad (ben Tova) Regev.

 

v      The shul has Siddurim & Machzorim ($36) and Chumashim ($54) available to be donated.  Please contact Eli Greenbaum for details

 

v      If you know anyone who could use a visit or assistance from the Bikkur Cholim/Chesed Committee please contact the Rabbi or Heidi Oster.

 

Kiddush/Seuda Shlishit

 

v      Please remember that no food or drinks are permitted in the classrooms or Beit Midrash.

 

v      An anonymous sponsor has stepped forward and has offered to sponsor one Kiddush a month provided the other 3 Kiddushim in the month are sponsored.  Please don’t let us lose this generous opportunity. Thank you to our anonymous sponsor.

 

v      If you would like to sponsor a Kiddush, contact Gail Plotnick. If you would like to sponsor a Seuda Shlishit, please speak to Barry Weinraub.

 

v      Kiddush setup this week are the following families: Spier, Stock, Winchester

 

v      Next week’s kiddush setup are the following families: Sokoloff, Weinraub, Wigod

 

v      Kiddush cleanup for the month of February are the following families: Neiger, Oppenheim, Oster, Perchuk, Plotnick, Racenstein, Reichardt, Rein, Riskin & Safier.

 
Weekday Davening Schedule

PLEASE MAKE EVERY EFFORT TO ATTEND MINYANIM.

 

 

 

Sunday

 

 

Monday

 

 

Tuesday

 

 

Wednesday

 

 

Thursday

 

Shacharit

8:15 am

6:15 am

6:25 am

6:25 am

6:15 am

Mincha/Ma’ariv

4:50 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

 

 

This Week at Ahavat Achim

Saturday, Feb 9             Men’s Club presents Improvodoxication: Jewish Improv You Can’t Resist, 8:00 pm at the shul

 
Adult Education at Ahavat Achim

PIRKEI AVOT Join Rabbi Goldstein on Monday mornings at 9:15 am for a class on Pirkei Avot.

 

GEMARAH SHIUR Join Rabbi Goldstein every Shabbat afternoon approximately one hour before Mincha.

 

PARSHA CLASS A weekly Parsha class with the Rabbi takes place every Tuesday evening at 8:30 pm.

 

CHUMASH CLASS Jerry Halpern gives a shiur every Shabbat morning from 8:00 – 8:45 am.  Men and women are invited to attend. We are studying Toldos.

 

SPECIAL SHABBAT OF SONG In conjunction with our annual journal dinner, we will have a celebratory Shabbat, March 7-8 with the renowned Baal Tefillah and singer, Dr. Elie Kranzler, who will lead us in inspiring Shabbat Tefillot and a Friday night Oneg.  Look for further information in the coming weeks.

 

 

A Glimpse Into Our Future

Monday, Feb 11 Shul Board Meeting, after Ma’ariv at the Shul

Friday, Feb 15               Oneg Shabbat, seeking a home volunteer.  Please contact Lori Garfunkel.

Shabbat, Feb 16            Aufruf of Steven Kirschenbaum

Shabbat March 7-8         Shabbat with Dr. Elie Kranzler.  Look for further information in the coming weeks.

Friday, March 7             Oneg Shabbat is being sponsored by Elie Kranzler.

Saturday, March 8         Annual Shul Dinner, honoring our Shul’s founding families

Fri-Shabbat, Mar 14-15   Yachad Shabbaton at the Shul

Shabbat, March 15         Sisterhood Book Club, 3:15pm at the Agress home

Shabbat, March 29         Bat Mitzvah of Arielle Kempin

 

Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program

The Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program appreciates your ideas and suggestions.  The committee is focusing on creating a meaningful Shabbos in the Shul experiences for our kids.  Any thoughts how to accomplish this - programming ideas, references material, good books to learn from, or books to read the kids, meaningful experiences to pass on to the children of the shul - are more than welcome. Please contact someone on the committee: Ilana Schwitzer at ilanatree@aol.com, Renee Freund, Eli Greenbaum, Sara Bernstein, Arnie Spier and/or the Rabbi. 

PRE-K MINYAN We are proud to announce that have a new Junior Congregation for those children in 2nd grade through pre-K to be led by Julie Goldstein.  Younger children are welcome when accompanied by a parent.


JUNIOR CONGREGATION The new Junior Congregation for boys in grades 3-6 takes place in the Beit Midrash at 10:15am led by Stu Oppenheim and some of our older boys.
 

TORAH LINKS presents Simcha Dancing for girls grade 1-8 - Motzai Shabbos Feb 16, 23- 7:45-8:45 PM & March 1- 8:00-9:00 PM at Cong. Ahavat Achim 18-25 Saddle River Rd. Fairlawn, NJ. Refreshments will be served. Suggested donation- $4.00 per session. For more information, please call Laya Weinberger at 732-901-5051

 

Tzeitchem L’Shalom/Boachem B’Shalom

Please email rjsafier@optonline.net the name(s) of those members either going to, or returning from, Israel so they can be included in the weekly bulletin.

 

Tehillim List
Please say Tehillim for the following people: Ariel Ben Vera (Ariel Sharon), Yaakov ben Sarah (Paul Sanemeterio), Menachem Manis ben Sarah Raizel, Yehudah Shlomo ben Yehudis Shosha, and Taibi Yehudit bat Tama Gossya.

 

If you would like to add/delete a name from this list, please contact rjsafier@optonline.net

 

Sisterhood and Men’s Club

IMPROVODOXICATION – JEWISH IMPROV YOU CAN’T RESIST – Improvodox, New York City’s Jewish Longform Improv Team is coming to Ahavat Achim on Saturday, Feb 9 at 8:00 pm at the shul.  A Shomer Shabbat comedy troupe that explores both Jewish and secular themes in the famed tradition of Chicago-style longform comedy improvisation (i.e. Second City, Upright Citizens Brigade.)  A Men’s Club 30th Anniversary celebration.  Admission fee: $18/members $23/Non-members (sponsors are welcome.)  Sponsorships including two tickets are available: “Saturday Night Live” - $54, “Second City” - $72, and “Chicago City Limits” - $100.  To sponsor or RSVP, contact Steve Winchester at Mensclub@ahavatachim.org.

 

BOOK CLUB The next book club meeting will take place on Shabbat March 15 at 3:15 PM in the home of Amy Agress. Donna Greenberg will be reviewing the book The Man In the White Sharkskin Suit by Lucette Lagnado. This is a fascinating memoir, which tells the story of Lucette's family's exodus from Old Cairo to the New World. In graceful prose, the author recreates the majesty and glamour of Cairo in the years between World War II and Gamel Abdel Nasser's rise to power. Her father, dressed in a white sharkskin suit, conducted business along the boulevard in elegant hotels and cafes. With Nasser's nationalization of industry, the family is forced to leave and depart for any land that might take them. The poverty and hardships they encounter in their flight from Cairo to Paris to New York are strikingly juxtaposed against the beauty and comforts of the lives left behind. This book is a must read!  All are welcome. For more information, contact DonnaJGree@aol.com.

 

Please contact Steve Winchester at swinchman@aol.com to join the Men’s Club.  To join Sisterhood, please contact Gail Plotnick or Andrea Riskin at ajriskin@aol.com.

 

Ahavat Achim Misc.

RABBI GOLDSTEIN’S OFFICE HOURS Although Rabbi Goldstein is always available to the membership; he will be maintaining office hours in the shul every Wednesday evening from 8:30 pm to 10:00 pm. Those wishing to make an appointment to speak to him during this time may contact him in advance either via e-mail rabbi@ahavatachim.org or by phone 201-794-3927. Please note that the Rabbi's e-mails are fowarded to his home PC and to his blackberry.

 

BECOME A MEMBER OF AHAVAT ACHIM If you are not yet a member of Congregation Ahavat Achim; please speak with Eli Greenbaum (796-7081) or email eligreenbaum@yahoo.com for details on membership.

 

NOTICE TO THOSE RECEIVING ALIYOT At the conclusion of your Aliyah, you are asked whether you would like to make an optional Mishebayrach for your family.  As part of that additional Mishebayrach, you pledge to give Tzedakah in any amount of your choosing in behalf of those for whom you have asked Hashem's blessing.  Contributions to the shul can be made on-line via Paypal to treasurer@ahavatachim.org, or via MasterCard, Visa or check by sending the information to Aryeh Brenenson and indicating on the note or check "Aliyah Donation."  Thank you for your generosity and continued support of Ahavat Achim.

 

TEFILLIN AND SHOES FOR NEEDY KIDS IN ISRAEL There are Bar Mitzvah boys in Israel whose families don't have the resources to purchase a pair of tefillin. Many go to orthodox yeshivas. Without your help they will have the ability to fulfill an important mitzvah that is the obligation of every Jewish man. There are thousands of boys and girls in Israel who have never had a new pair of shoes. The hand-me-downs don't fit and/or are in disrepair. Wearing these poorly fit shoes can cause foot injuries. A pair of tefillin costs $160. A pair of shoes costs $36 or 3 for $100. It is our intention to donate tefillin through the scholarship fund led by Rabbi's Rivlin and our own Rabbi Yasgur. We will purchase shoes for girls at the Bayit Lepleitot Orphans Home, and for boys and girls through Mesamche Lev. Through these two organizations, 50,000 pairs of children’s shoes were given to indigent children in 2006. So far thirteen member families have donated seven pairs of tefillin and twenty-three pairs of shoes. More are needed. Please send your generous donations made payable to Cheryl Wigod z"l Cong. Ahavat Achim Tzedakah fund to Jack Bickel at 36-02 Hale Place Fair Lawn, New Jersey 07410.

 

BAR/BAT MITZVAH The Fair Lawn Jewish Community Council gives a book as a present to all Bat and Bar Mitzvah children in each Shul.  If your child is going to be a Bar or Bat Mitzvah (or if they were recently a Bar or Bat Mitzvah), please contact Shirley Vann to receive the book. 

 

BOOK THE DAVID SCHWITZER SOCIAL HALL FOR A SHUL OR PERSONAL EVENT All bookings must be cleared through our calendar person, Steve Winchester. Please contact him at 796-1766 or swinchman@aol.com.

 

Easy Ways To Support Your Shul

SCRIP is available from Sisterhood for Food Showcase.  To purchase, please speak with Shelly Winchester at 796-1766.  Scrip is also available from the Men’s Club for Pathmark and Shop Rite.  To purchase, please speak with David Garfunkel at 791-1205.  You can pay for Scrip via Paypal to Treasurer@ahavatachim.org or MasterCard or Visa, by giving that information to Aryeh Brenenson. 

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES Memorialize a loved one and receive written notice of your upcoming yahrzeit every year. In addition, your loved one’s name will be mentioned during the public yizkor we recite on Yom Kippur.  Plaques are $250 for members and $350 for non-members.  For more information, contact Sophie Infield at 791-5518.

 

MITZVAH CARDS

Contact Eita Latkin at 791-8940 or via email at parentsof3@aol.com.   Mitzvah cards sent through Eita cost $3 and those sent to shul members will be acknowledged in the shul bulletin.   Mitzvah cards can also be ordered in bulk.  Ten cards will be sent to your home for $25.  These cards (which you send out yourself) cannot be acknowledged in the bulletin.

 

And We Remember…  During Shevat

 

Name

Hebrew Date

Shul Member

Relationship

Haim Amrani

3

Neil Amrani

Grandfather

Lenny Garfinkel

11

Shelly Winchester

Brother

Rabbi Samuel Rosenberg

11

Jeff Safier

Grandfather

Gloria Bader

18

Seth Bader

Mother

Gloria Bader

18

Sheree Kor

Mother

Herman Levine

20

Naomi Levine

Husband

Herman Levine

20

Kenny Levine

Father

Esther Rozenfeld

21

Zehava Baron

Mother

William Brody

21

Ron Sokoloff

Grandfather

Isidore Irving Freilich

23

Eita Latkin

Father

Leon Srebnick

23

Sophie Infield

Friend

Goldi Smedresman

27

Steven Smedresman

Grandmother

Jonas Zuckerberg

28

Sophie Infield

Father

Joseph Mandel

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