18-25 Saddle River Road     Fair Lawn, New Jersey 07410     201-797-0502

www.ahavatachim.org

Uri Goldstein, Rabbi

Arnie Spier, President

Curved Up Ribbon: Celebrating our 30th Year
our

 

Parshat Vayikra

Parshat Zachor

 

March 15, 2008

 

Friday 3/14

 

Shabbat 3/15

 

Friday 3/21

Purim

 

Shiur

 

8:00 am

 

 

Shacharit

6:25 am

8:45 am

6:00 & 8:00 am

 

Megillah

 

 

6:20 & 8:20 am

 

Shiur

 

5:40 pm

 

 

Candles

6:45 pm

 

6:52 pm

 

Mincha

6:50 pm

6:40 pm

6:55 pm

 

Ma’Ariv/Havdalah

 

7:49 pm

 

 

 

Please Do Not Speak During The Davening

 

Please be respectful. Do not enter or leave

the shul sanctuary during the d’var torah.

 
Things To Know This Shabbat

 

v      Welcome to all our guests, both from Yavneh and Yachad, who are here for the Yavneh/Yachad Shabbaton this weekend.  Thank you to the Kor and Lang families for coordinating this annual event in our shul. Additional thank yous are at the end of this bulletin. Yeyasher Kochachem.

 

v      Mrs. Jordana Baruchov, faculty member at Yavneh, will be giving a guest lecture at 4:00 p.m. at the shul during the Yachad Shabbaton to those that are interested.  Her topic: "Is G-d Judgmental?" All are invited for an interesting discussion.

 

v      Thank you to the dinner committee, Lori & David Garfunkel, Shelly & Sam Racenstein, Ilana & Nate Schwitzer and Barry & Mimi Weinraub for their participation in our Shul Dinner last weekend.  Thank you to Melanie Kwestel and Andy Solomon for their video tribute.  It was a truly beautiful and memorable event.

 

v      Volunteers are needed to pack and distribute Mishloach Manot. Tuesday night is packing night. We'll be working at the home of Gail Plotnick, 41-42 Rys Terrace, beginning at 8:00 PM. Please email Melanie Kwestel (mkwestel@gmail.com) or call 797 1733 if you can pack.

 

v      Drivers are needed to deliver Mishloach Manot. Please email or call Shelly Winchester to volunteer (796-1766, swinchman@aol.com).

 

v      A woman’s bracelet was found in the shul.  Please contact Arnie if it is yours.

 

v      OU Pesach books are available in the Shul lobby

 

v      Please keep Gil Adler's safety in the Israeli army in mind when you light your Shabbat candles.

 

v      Please daven for the soldiers: Gilad (ben Aviva) Shalit, Ehud (ben Malka) Goldwasser and Eldad (ben Tova) Regev.

 

v      The shul has Siddurim & Machzorim ($36) and Chumashim ($54) available to be donated.  Please contact Eli Greenbaum for details

 

v      If you know anyone who could use a visit or assistance from the Bikkur Cholim/Chesed Committee please contact the Rabbi or Heidi Oster.

 

Kiddush/Seuda Shlishit

 

v      Please remember that no food or drinks are permitted in the classrooms, Beit Midrash or youth lounge.

 

v      An anonymous sponsor has stepped forward and has offered to sponsor one Kiddush a month provided the other 3 Kiddushim in the month are sponsored.  Please don’t let us lose this generous opportunity. Thank you to our anonymous sponsor.

 

v      If you would like to sponsor a Kiddush, contact Gail Plotnick. If you would like to sponsor a Seuda Shlishit, please speak to David Garfunkel.

 

v      Kiddush setup this week are the following families: Finkelstein, Freund, & Gabor.

 

v      Next week’s Kiddush setup are the following families: Garfunkel, Goldgur and Goldman/Greenbaum.

 

v      Kiddush cleanup for the month of March are the following families: Schachter, Schwitzer, Smedresman, Sokoloff, Solomon, Sonnenblick, Sperling, Spier, Stock and Taubes.

 
Weekday Davening Schedule

PLEASE MAKE EVERY EFFORT TO ATTEND MINYANIM.

 

 

 

Sunday

 

 

Monday

 

 

Tuesday

 

 

Wednesday

 

 

Thursday

Ta’anit Esther

Fast Begins

 

 

 

 

5:47 am

Shacharit

8:15 am

6:15 am

6:25 am

6:25 am

6:00 am

Mincha/Ma’ariv

6:50 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

6:40 pm

Ma’ariv/Megillah

 

 

 

 

7:10 pm

2nd Megillah reading

 

 

 

 

9:00 pm

Fast Ends

 

 

 

 

7:43 pm

 

Adult Education at Ahavat Achim

PIRKEI AVOT Join Rabbi Goldstein on Monday mornings at 9:15 am for a class on Pirkei Avot.

 

GEMARAH SHIUR Join Rabbi Goldstein every Shabbat afternoon approximately one hour before Mincha.

 

PARSHA CLASS A weekly Parsha class with the Rabbi takes place every Tuesday evening at 8:30 pm.

 

CHUMASH CLASS Jerry Halpern gives a shiur every Shabbat morning from 8:00 – 8:45 am.  Men and women are invited to attend. We are studying Toldos.

 

TORAH LINKS Torah Links presents a Sunday Morning Bais Midrash featuring Rabbi Moshe
N. Abramczyk at the shul, Sunday Mornings March 9 - April 6.  Light breakfast shiur following Shacharit from
9:15-10:15 am.  Topics are: March 16 Purim Insights; March 23 Halacha Highlights fascinating Halacha questions relating to Pesach; April 6 Something to say at the Seder.  Rabbi Abramczyk is a lecturer at Torah Links. He is a musmach of Beth Medrash Govoha in Lakewood New Jersey where he directs a research group (Chabura). He also serves as the director of Rabbi Shmuel Meyer Katz's
Halacha Hotline, which fields several hundred Halacha questions each week.  The first weeks learning is in memory of Mimi Weinraub's mother Udel bas Yechiel Tzvi a’’h.

 

A Glimpse Into Our Future

Thursday, March 20       Ta’anit Esther

Friday, March 21            Purim

Shabbat, March 29         Bat Mitzvah of Arielle Kempin

Shabbat, May 3             Sisterhood Book Club Meeting, 3pm at the Winchester home

 

Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program

The Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program appreciates your ideas and suggestions.  The committee is focusing on creating a meaningful Shabbos in the Shul experiences for our kids.  Any thoughts how to accomplish this - programming ideas, references material, good books to learn from, or books to read the kids, meaningful experiences to pass on to the children of the shul - are more than welcome. Please contact someone on the committee: Ilana Schwitzer at ilanatree@aol.com, Renee Freund, Eli Greenbaum, Sara Bernstein, Arnie Spier and/or the Rabbi. 

YOUTH LEADERS Jonathan Schwitzer– Director, Leaders: Debra Garfunkel, Edye Lang, Mathew Plotnick, and Josh Agress;

 

PRE-K MINYAN We are proud to announce that have a Junior Congregation for those children in pre-K through 2nd grade to be led by Julie Goldstein.  Younger children are welcome when accompanied by a parent.


JUNIOR CONGREGATION The Junior Congregation for boys in grades 3-6 takes place in the Beit Midrash at 10:15am led by this week’s group leaders.
 
Tzeitchem L’Shalom/Boachem B’Shalom

Please email rjsafier@optonline.net the name(s) of those members either going to, or returning from, Israel so they can be included in the weekly bulletin.

 

Tehillim List
Please say Tehillim for the following people: Ariel Ben Vera (Ariel Sharon), Yaakov ben Sarah (Paul Sanemeterio), Menachem Manis ben Sarah Raizel, Yehudah Shlomo ben Yehudis Shosha, and Taibi Yehudit bat Tama Gossya.

 

If you would like to add/delete a name from this list, please contact rjsafier@optonline.net

 

Sisterhood and Men’s Club

BOOK CLUB The next book club meeting will take place on May 3 at 4:00 PM at the home of Shelley Winchester 19-18 Angelo Terrace. Shelley will be reviewing the book The Zookeeper's Wife: A War Story by Diane Ackerman. From Publishers Weekly: Starred Review. "Ackerman (A Natural History of the Senses) tells the remarkable WWII story of Jan Zabinski, the director of the Warsaw Zoo, and his wife, Antonina, who, with courage and coolheaded ingenuity, sheltered 300 Jews as well as Polish resisters in their villa and in animal cages and sheds. Using Antonina's diaries, other contemporary sources and her own research in Poland, Ackerman takes us into the Warsaw ghetto and the 1943 Jewish uprising and also describes the Poles' revolt against the Nazi occupiers in 1944. She introduces us to such varied figures as Lutz Heck, the duplicitous head of the Berlin zoo; Rabbi Kalonymus Kalman Shapira, spiritual head of the ghetto; and the leaders of Zegota, the Polish organization that rescued Jews. Ackerman reveals other rescuers, like Dr. Mada Walter, who helped many Jews pass, giving lessons on how to appear Aryan and not attract notice.  This suspenseful beautifully crafted story deserves a wide readership." All are welcome!! For further information contact DonnaJGree@aol.com

 

Please contact Steve Winchester at swinchman@aol.com to join the Men’s Club.  To join Sisterhood, please contact Gail Plotnick or Andrea Riskin at ajriskin@aol.com.

 

Ahavat Achim Misc.

RABBI GOLDSTEIN’S OFFICE HOURS Although Rabbi Goldstein is always available to the membership; he will be maintaining office hours in the shul every Wednesday evening from 8:30 pm to 10:00 pm. Those wishing to make an appointment to speak to him during this time may contact him in advance either via e-mail rabbi@ahavatachim.org or by phone 201-794-3927. Please note that the Rabbi's e-mails are forwarded to his home PC and to his blackberry.

 

BECOME A MEMBER OF AHAVAT ACHIM If you are not yet a member of Congregation Ahavat Achim; please speak with Eli Greenbaum (796-7081) or email eligreenbaum@yahoo.com for details on membership.

 

NOTICE TO THOSE RECEIVING ALIYOT At the conclusion of your Aliyah, you are asked whether you would like to make an optional Mishebayrach for your family.  As part of that additional Mishebayrach, you pledge to give Tzedakah in any amount of your choosing in behalf of those for whom you have asked Hashem's blessing.  Contributions to the shul can be made on-line via Paypal to treasurer@ahavatachim.org, or via MasterCard, Visa or check by sending the information to Aryeh Brenenson and indicating on the note or check "Aliyah Donation."  Thank you for your generosity and continued support of Ahavat Achim.

 

BAR/BAT MITZVAH The Fair Lawn Jewish Community Council gives a book as a present to all Bat and Bar Mitzvah children in each Shul.  If your child is going to be a Bar or Bat Mitzvah (or if they were recently a Bar or Bat Mitzvah), please contact Shirley Vann to receive the book. 

 

BOOK THE DAVID SCHWITZER SOCIAL HALL FOR A SHUL OR PERSONAL EVENT All bookings must be cleared through our calendar person, Steve Winchester. Please contact him at 796-1766 or swinchman@aol.com.

 

Easy Ways To Support Your Shul

SCRIP is available from Sisterhood for Food Showcase.  To purchase, please speak with Shelly Winchester at 796-1766.  Scrip is also available from the Men’s Club for Pathmark and Shop Rite.  To purchase, please speak with David Garfunkel at 791-1205.  You can pay for Scrip via Paypal to Treasurer@ahavatachim.org or MasterCard or Visa, by giving that information to Aryeh Brenenson. 

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES Memorialize a loved one and receive written notice of your upcoming yahrzeit every year. In addition, your loved one’s name will be mentioned during the public yizkor we recite on Yom Kippur.  Plaques are $250 for members and $350 for non-members.  Please note that as of July 1, 2008 the price will increase to $300 for members and $350 for non-members. For more information, contact Sophie Infield at 791-5518.

 

MITZVAH CARDS

Contact Eita Latkin at 791-8940 or via email at parentsof3@aol.com.   Mitzvah cards sent through Eita cost $3 and those sent to shul members will be acknowledged in the shul bulletin.   Mitzvah cards can also be ordered in bulk.  Ten cards will be sent to your home for $25.  These cards (which you send out yourself) cannot be acknowledged in the bulletin.

 

And We Remember…  During Adar II

 

Name

Hebrew Date

Shul Member

Relationship

Charles Feldman Frankel

17

Elyce Smedresman

Uncle

Edna Kerin Shimoff

22

Melanie Kwestel

Mother

Louis Strausberg

22

Seymour Strausberg

Father

Sofie Levitskaia

29

Yuliya Perchuk

Mother

 

This section is published each month before Rosh Chodesh to remember the yahrzeit of those listed on memorial plaques in the shul, and to memorialize members' immediate relatives who have passed away.  If you would like the yahrzeit of a family member to be included in this section, please contact