18-25 Saddle River Road    Fair Lawn, New Jersey 07410    201-797-0502

www.ahavatachim.org

Uri Goldstein, Rabbi

Arnie Spier, President

Curved Up Ribbon: Celebrating our 30th Year
our

 

Parshat Shmini

Parshat Parah

 

March 29, 2008

 

Friday 3/28

 

Shabbat 3/29

 

Friday 4/4

 

 

Shiur

 

8:00 am

 

 

Shacharit

6:25 am

8:45 am

6:25 am

 

Shiur

 

5:55 pm

 

 

Candles

7:00 pm

 

7:07 pm

 

Mincha

7:05 pm

6:55 pm

7:00 pm

 

Ma’Ariv/Havdalah

 

8:04 pm

 

 

Please Do Not Speak During The Davening

 

Please be respectful. Do not enter or leave

the shul sanctuary during the d’var torah.

 
Things To Know This Shabbat

 

v      Mazal Tov to Deborah and Mitchell Kempin on Arielle’s becoming a Bat Mitzvah.  The Kempins invite the entire shul to Kiddush in the David Schwitzer Social Hall after Davening.

 

v      Condolences to Eita Latkin on the passing of her cousin Bernard Page.  May the family be comforted among the mourners for Zion and Yerushalayim.

 

v      Throughout the course of the year people from all over the area and Israel approach Rabbi Goldstein for assistance.  As Pesach gets closer, I am asked for assistance on virtually a daily basis.  Please help support those who are in need-contribute generously to the Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund.

 

v      Please note that the Rabbi will be available to sell your Chametz as of April 6.

 

v      As we approach Yom Ha’atzmaut and Israel's 60th birthday we would like to have another Yom Ha’atzmaut BBQ. Please see Arnie if you can chair this event.

 

v      As per the constitution I have appointed a Nominating Committee to be chaired by Amy Agress. Joining the committee are Rose Dworkis, Eli Greenbaum, Sam Racenstein, Jonathan Schachter and Betsy Sonnenblick. Thanks to the committee for volunteering and if you have any suggestions please feel free to contact any member of the committee.  – Arnie Spier.

 

v      It's a great time to purchase Food Showcase scrip before Pesach and that people should contact Shelly Winchester if interested.

 

v      OU Pesach books are available in the Shul lobby

 

v      Please keep Gil Adler's safety in the Israeli army in mind when you light your Shabbat candles.

 

v      Please daven for the soldiers: Gilad (ben Aviva) Shalit, Ehud (ben Malka) Goldwasser and Eldad (ben Tova) Regev.

 

v      The shul has Siddurim & Machzorim ($36) and Chumashim ($54) available to be donated.  Please contact Eli Greenbaum for details

 

v      If you know anyone who could use a visit or assistance from the Bikkur Cholim/Chesed Committee please contact the Rabbi or Heidi Oster.

 

Kiddush/Seuda Shlishit

 

v      Please remember that no food or drinks are permitted in the classrooms, Beit Midrash or youth lounge.

 

v      An anonymous sponsor has stepped forward and has offered to sponsor one Kiddush a month provided the other 3 Kiddushim in the month are sponsored.  Please don’t let us lose this generous opportunity. Thank you to our anonymous sponsor.

 

v      If you would like to sponsor a Kiddush, contact Gail Plotnick. If you would like to sponsor a Seuda Shlishit, please speak to David Garfunkel.

 

v      Kiddush setup this week are the following families: Goldstein, Graber, D. & G. Greenberg.

 

v      Next week’s Kiddush setup are the following families: L. &M. Greenberg, Halpern, Heller

 

v      Kiddush cleanup for the month of March are the following families: Schachter, Schwitzer, Smedresman, Sokoloff, Solomon, Sonnenblick, Sperling, Spier, Stock and Taubes.

 
Weekday Davening Schedule

PLEASE MAKE EVERY EFFORT TO ATTEND MINYANIM.

 

 

 

Sunday

 

 

Monday

 

 

Tuesday

 

 

Wednesday

 

 

Thursday

 

Shacharit

8:15 am

6:15 am

6:25 am

6:25 am

6:15 am

Mincha/Ma’ariv

7:05 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

8:00 pm

 

Adult Education at Ahavat Achim

PIRKEI AVOT Join Rabbi Goldstein on Monday mornings at 9:15 am for a class on Pirkei Avot.

 

GEMARAH SHIUR Join Rabbi Goldstein every Shabbat afternoon approximately one hour before Mincha.

 

PARSHA CLASS A weekly Parsha class with the Rabbi takes place every Tuesday evening at 8:30 pm.

 

CHUMASH CLASS Jerry Halpern gives a shiur every Shabbat morning from 8:00 – 8:45 am.  Men and women are invited to attend. We are studying Toldos.

 

TORAH LINKS Torah Links presents a Sunday Morning Bais Midrash featuring Rabbi Moshe
N. Abramczyk at the shul.  Light breakfast shiur following Shacharit from 9:15-10:15 am.  Topics are: March 30 General Info about Pesach; April 6 Something to say at the Seder.  Rabbi Abramczyk is a lecturer at Torah Links. He is a musmach of Beth Medrash Govoha in Lakewood New Jersey where he directs a research group (Chabura). He also serves as the director of Rabbi Shmuel Meyer Katz's Halacha Hotline, which fields several hundred Halacha questions each week. 

 

HISTORY CLUB Our next History Club will be on the subject of the Shanghai Ghetto, the story of the 20,000 Jews who managed to survive the Holocaust in Japanese- occupied Shanghai because it was the only place in the world that did not require papers to be admitted.  On a date in May to be announced, we will see a film on the subject narrated by Martin Landau, and, for those who want to start reading, the following books:  Farewell Shanghai by Angel Wagenstein, a very interesting novel, and 3 memoirs: Shanghai Refuge by Ernst Heppner, the one with the most facts, including those about the contribution of Sugihara and Jan Zwartendyke in providing visas to Curacao, and Shanghai Childhood by Sigmund Tobias, describing his education at the Mir Yeshiva which had relocated to Shanghai, and Shanghai Diary by Ursula Bacon, who in a totally charming writing style describes her teen-age experiences teaching English to the three concubines of General Yi and other adventures! Reviews of the movie: Academy Award-winner actor Martin Landau narrates this riveting documentary about Shanghai's little-known Jewish ghetto, settled in the 1930s by Jews who fled Nazi Germany. SHANGHAI GHETTO recalls the strange-but-true story of thousands of European Jews who were shut out of country after country while trying to escape Nazi persecution in the late 1930s. Left without options or entrance visas, a beacon of hope materialized for them on the other side of the world, and in the unlikeliest of places, Japanese-controlled Shanghai. Fleeing for their lives, these Jewish refugees journeyed to form a settlement in the exotic city, penniless and unprepared for their new life in the Far East. At the turn of the new millennium, filmmakers Dana Janklowicz-Mann and Amire Mann boldly snuck into China with two survivors and a digital camera to shoot at the site of the original Shanghai Ghetto, unchanged since WWII. Their never-before-seen recordings--along with interviews of survivors and historians, rare letters, stock footage, still photos, and an original score depicts an incredibly moving portrayal of a rich cultural life, bravely constructed under enormous hardship. The books are available at Amazon - I will try to attach reviews to a subsequent bulletin.

 

A Glimpse Into Our Future

Thursday, April 8            Pre-Pesach Q & A with Rabbi Goldstein, 8:30 pm at the Shul

Sunday, April 13            Pre-Pesach Food Drive at the Bickel home from 8:00am – 7:00 pm. Details to follow.

Monday, April 14            Shul Board Meeting at the Shul, following Ma’Ariv

Thursday, April 17          BeDikat Chametz

Friday, April 18              Burn the Chametz

Saturday Night, April 19  First Seder

Shabbat, May 3             Sisterhood Book Club Meeting, 3pm at the Winchester home

Monday, May 12            Shul Board Meeting at the Shul, following Ma’Ariv

Monday, June 16           Sisterhood Annual Spring Dinner, honoring Gail Plotnick. Details to follow

 

Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program

The Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program appreciates your ideas and suggestions.  The committee is focusing on creating a meaningful Shabbos in the Shul experiences for our kids.  Any thoughts how to accomplish this - programming ideas, references material, good books to learn from, or books to read the kids, meaningful experiences to pass on to the children of the shul - are more than welcome. Please contact someone on the committee: Ilana Schwitzer at ilanatree@aol.com, Renee Freund, Eli Greenbaum, Sara Bernstein, Arnie Spier and/or the Rabbi. 

PRE-K MINYAN We are proud to announce that have a Junior Congregation for those children in pre-K through 2nd grade to be led by Julie Goldstein.  Younger children are welcome when accompanied by a parent.


JUNIOR CONGREGATION The Junior Congregation for boys in grades 3-6 takes place in the Beit Midrash at 10:15am led by this week’s group leaders.
 
Tzeitchem L’Shalom/Boachem B’Shalom

Please email rjsafier@optonline.net the name(s) of those members either going to, or returning from, Israel so they can be included in the weekly bulletin.

 

Tehillim List
Please say Tehillim for the following people: Ariel Ben Vera (Ariel Sharon), Menachem Manis ben Sarah Raizel, Yehudah Shlomo ben Yehudis Shosha, Taibi Yehudit bat Tama Gossya and Frumit Bat Yakira.

 

If you would like to add/delete a name from this list, please contact rjsafier@optonline.net

 

Sisterhood and Men’s Club

BOOK CLUB The next book club meeting will take place on May 3 at 4:00 PM at the home of Shelley Winchester 19-18 Angelo Terrace. Shelley will be reviewing the book The Zookeeper's Wife: A War Story by Diane Ackerman. From Publishers Weekly: Starred Review. "Ackerman (A Natural History of the Senses) tells the remarkable WWII story of Jan Zabinski, the director of the Warsaw Zoo, and his wife, Antonina, who, with courage and coolheaded ingenuity, sheltered 300 Jews as well as Polish resisters in their villa and in animal cages and sheds. Using Antonina's diaries, other contemporary sources and her own research in Poland, Ackerman takes us into the Warsaw ghetto and the 1943 Jewish uprising and also describes the Poles' revolt against the Nazi occupiers in 1944. She introduces us to such varied figures as Lutz Heck, the duplicitous head of the Berlin zoo; Rabbi Kalonymus Kalman Shapira, spiritual head of the ghetto; and the leaders of Zegota, the Polish organization that rescued Jews. Ackerman reveals other rescuers, like Dr. Mada Walter, who helped many Jews pass, giving lessons on how to appear Aryan and not attract notice.  This suspenseful beautifully crafted story deserves a wide readership." All are welcome!! For further information contact DonnaJGree@aol.com

 

SPRING DINNER Save the Date! The sisterhood annual Spring Dinner honoring Gail Plotnick will take place on Monday, June 6th. 

 

Please contact Steve Winchester at swinchman@aol.com to join the Men’s Club.  To join Sisterhood, please contact Gail Plotnick or Andrea Riskin at ajriskin@aol.com.

 

Ahavat Achim Misc.

RABBI GOLDSTEIN’S OFFICE HOURS Although Rabbi Goldstein is always available to the membership; he will be maintaining office hours in the shul every Wednesday evening from 8:30 pm to 10:00 pm. Those wishing to make an appointment to speak to him during this time may contact him in advance either via e-mail rabbi@ahavatachim.org or by phone 201-794-3927. Please note that the Rabbi's e-mails are forwarded to his home PC and to his blackberry.

 

BECOME A MEMBER OF AHAVAT ACHIM If you are not yet a member of Congregation Ahavat Achim; please speak with Eli Greenbaum (796-7081) or email eligreenbaum@yahoo.com for details on membership.

 

NOTICE TO THOSE RECEIVING ALIYOT At the conclusion of your Aliyah, you are asked whether you would like to make an optional Mishebayrach for your family.  As part of that additional Mishebayrach, you pledge to give Tzedakah in any amount of your choosing in behalf of those for whom you have asked Hashem's blessing.  Contributions to the shul can be made on-line via Paypal to treasurer@ahavatachim.org, or via MasterCard, Visa or check by sending the information to Aryeh Brenenson and indicating on the note or check "Aliyah Donation."  Thank you for your generosity and continued support of Ahavat Achim.

 

BAR/BAT MITZVAH The Fair Lawn Jewish Community Council gives a book as a present to all Bat and Bar Mitzvah children in each Shul.  If your child is going to be a Bar or Bat Mitzvah (or if they were recently a Bar or Bat Mitzvah), please contact Shirley Vann to receive the book. 

 

BOOK THE DAVID SCHWITZER SOCIAL HALL FOR A SHUL OR PERSONAL EVENT All bookings must be cleared through our calendar person, Steve Winchester. Please contact him at 796-1766 or swinchman@aol.com.

 

Easy Ways To Support Your Shul

SCRIP is available from Sisterhood for Food Showcase.  To purchase, please speak with Shelly Winchester at 796-1766.  Scrip is also available from the Men’s Club for Pathmark and Shop Rite.  To purchase, please speak with David Garfunkel at 791-1205.  You can pay for Scrip via Paypal to Treasurer@ahavatachim.org or MasterCard or Visa, by giving that information to Aryeh Brenenson. 

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES Memorialize a loved one and receive written notice of your upcoming yahrzeit every year. In addition, your loved one’s name will be mentioned during the public yizkor we recite on Yom Kippur.  Plaques are $250 for members and $350 for non-members.  Please note that as of July 1, 2008 the price will increase to $300 for members and $350 for non-members. For more information, contact Sophie Infield at 791-5518.

 

MITZVAH CARDS

Contact Eita Latkin at 791-8940 or via email at parentsof3@aol.com.   Mitzvah cards sent through Eita cost $3 and those sent to shul members will be acknowledged in the shul bulletin.   Mitzvah cards can also be ordered in bulk.  Ten cards will be sent to your home for $25.  These cards (which you send out yourself) cannot be acknowledged in the bulletin.

 

And We Remember…  During Adar II

 

Name

Hebrew Date

Shul Member

Relationship

Charles Feldman Frankel

17

Elyce Smedresman

Uncle

Edna Kerin Shimoff

22

Melanie Kwestel

Mother

Louis Strausberg

22

Seymour Strausberg

Father

Sofie Levitskaia

29

Yuliya Perchuk

Mother

 

This section is published each month before Rosh Chodesh to remember the yahrzeit of those listed on memorial plaques in the shul, and to memorialize members' immediate relatives who have passed away.  If you would like the yahrzeit of a family member to be included in this section, please contact rjsafier@optonline.net.

 

Fair Lawn Jewish Community Events and Highlights

COMPUTER TRAINING COURSES FROM JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES Small classes, Personalized attention.  SCHONY.COM is offering: Ms Word, Excel, Power Point, Access, Quickbooks, Internet & Email.  Beginner, Intermediate & Advanced Level Training.  Certified Microsoft Master Instructor. Register for classes by contacting Laura 201-837-9090 LauraI@jfsbergen.org.

 

JOB SEARCH NETWORK The Job Search Network from Jewish Family Services is offering: Take Your career to the Next Level: Workshops and Support Group – 12 week series. What is a Career Brand? ; Develop your career brand; The power of positive self-talk; Target marketing strategies; Stand out in a minute; The perfect resumé; The winning cover letter; Ace the telephone interview; Interview blunders; Master the interview; Salary negotiation; and The thank you note.  March 26, 2008 to June 11, 2008

Wednesdays, 10:00am to 12:00pm, Jewish Family Service, 1485 Teaneck Rd, Teaneck, NJ.  Register by contacting Laura 201-837-9090  LauraI@jfsbergen.org.

 

TORAH LINKS Torah Links and the Young Israel of Fair lawn invite you to the famous and popular live Shiur broadcast of Rabbi Yisroel Reisman's Shiur to be broadcast this Motzai Shabbos 3/29/08 at the Young Israel of Fair Lawn.  The program will start with coffee and cake at 9:30 PM followed by the Shiur starting promptly at 10:00 PM. The entire Jewish community at large is invited. No admission fee.

 

PROJECT S.A.R.A.H. BREAKFAST The entire community is invited to the second annual breakfast to benefit Project S.A.R.A.H. (stop abusive relationships at home).  Please join us in honoring: Dr. Cheryl Kramer, Esteemed Founder and Rabbi Yosef Adler, Rabbinic Supporter Award. Video presentation: “Project S.A.R.A.H. – Voices of Survival” on Sunday, March 30th at Congregation Beth Sholom, 354 Maitland Avenue, Teaneck, NJ.  From 9:30 – 11:30 am.  For more information please call 973-777-7638.

 

DARCHEI NOAM BRUNCH ‘N LEARN On Sunday March 30 at 10:00 AM, with Mrs. Julie Goldstein, Rebbetzin of Ahavat Achim, at the home of Debbie and Bernie Thau (2-13 Kenneth Ave,). Mrs. Goldstein is an instructor and doctoral candidate in medieval history and Jewish studies at New York University, previously taught Jewish history and Israel studies at Ma'ayanot High School and received her Bachelors and Masters degrees at Yeshiva University. This learning program is conducted in cooperation with Ahavat Achim and is sponsored by, Nina Charnoff, in commemoration of the Yahrzeit of her father, Zelig Moshe ben Shlomo Kalman A"H. Mrs. Goldstein's presentation is titled: "Rescue Me! Visions of Redemption in Haggadot Past and Present" and promises to be fascinating. All men and women are invited. An $18 donation is suggested.

 

THE DEVIL CAME ON HORSEBACK Please join us on Sunday evening, March 30, 2008 to view the first ever screening in northern New Jersey of “The Devil Came on Horseback” at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, 411 East Clinton Avenue, Tenafly at 7:00 PM. There will be a speaker from the Darfur Rehabilitation Project to address us after viewing the film.

 

HAZKARAH FOR YESHIVA MERCAZ HARAV The Va’ad Harabanim – Rabbinical Council of Bergen County invites the community to a community wide evening of reflection on the tragic events at Yeshivat Mercaz Harav on Wednesday April 2nd, 2008 – 27 Adar II 5768 at 8:15pm at Congregation Bnai Yeshurun, 641 West Englewood Avenue, Teaneck, New Jersey.  The Speakers will be: Rabbi Ozer Glickman - “Moral Relativism vs. Pure Evil” Thoughts on the Murder of Innocents and Rabbi Zev Reichman - “ Bemichitzasam Shel Kedoshim” A First Hand Report of Emunah and Chizuk from the Shiva Homes of the Eight Students.  Tehillim and Keil Molei Rachamim will be recited. About our speakers: Rabbi Glickman is a Rosh Yeshiva at RIETS and a former student of Yeshivat Mercaz Harav. Rabbi Zev Reichman is the spiritual leader of the East Hill Synagogue of Englewood and director of the Mechinah Program at Yeshiva University. He traveled to Israel on behalf of his synagogue to convey his community’s condolences.

 

BEN YEHUDAH STREET FAIR In celebration of Israel at 60! Sunday, April 6, 2008 from Noon – 5pm. West Englewood Avenue off Queen Anne Road, Teaneck, NJ – Free Admission – Rain or Shine – Israeli vendors, food, live music, entertainment, family fun.  For more info and sponsorship – contact David Hyman – 201-488-3953 - Sponsored by UJA/NNJ.

 

YOM HASHOAH PROGRAM The Holocaust Memorial Committee of UJA Federation of Northern New Jersey announces that the 65th Anniversary of the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising and the Annual Holocaust Commemoration will take place on Thursday, May 1, 2008, at Temple Sholom, 385 Howland Avenue, River Edge, NJ at 7 PM.  The media exhibit will be open for viewing at 6:15 PM.  The facility is handicap accessible. Our distinguished keynote speaker will be Julius Berman, Chairman of the Conference on Jewish Material Claims Against Germany.  The community speaker will be New Milford High School teacher Colleen Tambuscio who has implemented a Holocaust education program that includes a student trip to Eastern Europe. Temple Sholom clergy will participate in the program, which will include a children's candle lighting procession.  The moving stories of six Holocaust survivors will be told as each light a candle in memory of the Six Million Jews. Other speakers will include a child of survivors and a Yiddish reading. For additional information can be obtained by contacting Dr. Wallace Greene at (201) 488-6800, x. 207.  For directions call (201) 891-4466.

 

 

RIDE WITH ISRAEL On Sunday, May 18th 2008, the Fair Lawn Jewish Community Council in conjunction with the UJA Federation of Northern New Jersey will hold “RIDE WITH ISRAEL AT 60,” a b