18-25 Saddle River Road     Fair Lawn, New Jersey 07410     201-797-0502

www.ahavatachim.org

Uri Goldstein, Rabbi

Arnie Spier, President

 

Curved Up Ribbon: Celebrating our 30th Year
our

Parshat Acharei Mot

Shabbat Hagadol

 

April 19, 2008

 

Friday 4/18

 

Shabbat 4/19

1st Seder

Sunday 4/20

2nd Seder

Monday 4/21

 

Burn Chametz

Before 11:45 am

 

 

 

 

Eat Chametz no later than

 

10:40 am

 

 

 

Shiur

 

 

 

 

 

Shacharit

6:25 am

7:15 am

8:45 am

8:45 am

 

Shiur

 

 

 

 

 

Mincha

7:00 pm

7:15 pm

7:25 pm

7:25 pm

 

Candles

7:22 pm

After 8:26 pm

After 8:27 pm

 

 

Ma’Ariv/Havdalah

 

 

 

8:28 pm

 

 

Please Do Not Speak During The Davening

 

Please be respectful. Do not enter or leave

the shul sanctuary during the d’var torah.

 
Things To Know This Shabbat

 

v      Refuah Shelamah to Murray Chass who is in the hospital recuperating from surgery.

 

v      Yasher Koach to Marty Sonnenblick for the Men's Club Kashering last week; Seymour Wigod for cleaning the pews; and to Rabbi Goldstein for getting the shul ready for Pesach, his Siyum, etc.

 

v      Please submit all bulletin inclusions to Arnie Spier for the next two weeks and not to the bulletin email address. – Thank you

 

v      After years as editor of this weekly bulletin Robyn is stepping down after Pesach. Please see Arnie to volunteer.

 

v      The entire congregation is invited to attend the Dedication of the Bodoff Jewish Fiction Collection at the Frisch School Library on Sunday May 4 2008 at 3pm.  Rabbi Goldstein will be the guest speaker, and refreshments will be served.  Parents and students of High School and College age are invited.  Please return the RSVP card enclosed in the invitations you have received.

 

v      Please redeem your Yachad pledges as quickly as possible.  We'd like to send the money to
Yachad as we made a commitment to send a kid to camp and can't fulfill that commitment until EVERYONE
redeems his or her pledge.

 

v      We have a family looking to move here with 3 children ages 1, 5 and 9.  They are seeking to purchase preferably a Colonial with 4 or 5 bedrooms.  If you know of a house on or going on the market please see Arnie.  The family wishes to spend two Shabbatot with us May 17th and 24th, if you could house or host the family for a meal please see Jonathan Schachter.  The family is also looking for a place to stay during the week from the 12th to the 25th of May, if you know of a place or a short-term rental available please see Arnie or Jonathan.

 

v      Throughout the course of the year people from all over the area and Israel approach Rabbi Goldstein for assistance.  Please help support those who are in need-contribute generously to the Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund.

 

v      As we approach Yom Ha’atzmaut and Israel's 60th birthday we would like to have another Yom Ha’atzmaut BBQ. Please see Arnie if you can chair this event.

 

v      Please keep Yosef Goldgur’s safety in the Israeli army in mind when you light your Shabbat candles.

 

v      Please daven for the soldiers: Gilad (ben Aviva) Shalit, Ehud (ben Malka) Goldwasser and Eldad (ben Tova) Regev.

 

v      The shul has Siddurim & Machzorim ($36) and Chumashim ($54) available to be donated.  Please contact Eli Greenbaum for details

 

v      If you know anyone who could use a visit or assistance from the Bikkur Cholim/Chesed Committee please contact the Rabbi or Heidi Oster.

 

Kiddush/Seuda Shlishit

 

v      Please remember that no food or drinks are permitted in the classrooms, Beit Midrash or youth lounge.

 

v      An anonymous sponsor has stepped forward and has offered to sponsor one Kiddush a month provided the other 3 Kiddushim in the month are sponsored.  Please don’t let us lose this generous opportunity. Thank you to our anonymous sponsor.

 

v      If you would like to sponsor a Kiddush, contact Gail Plotnick. If you would like to sponsor a Seuda Shlishit, please speak to David Garfunkel.

 

v      No Kiddush this week!

 


Weekday Davening Schedule

PLEASE MAKE EVERY EFFORT TO ATTEND MINYANIM.

 

 

 

Tuesday

Chol Hamoed

 

Wednesday

Chol Hamoed

 

Thursday

Chol Hamoed

 

Friday

Chol Hamoed

Shacharit

6:00 am

6:00 am

6:00 am

6:00 am

Mincha/Ma’ariv

7:25 pm

7:25 pm

7:25 pm

7:30 pm

Candle Lighting

 

 

 

7:29 pm

 

Adult Education at Ahavat Achim

PIRKEI AVOT Join Rabbi Goldstein on Monday mornings at 9:15 am for a class on Pirkei Avot.

 

GEMARAH SHIUR Join Rabbi Goldstein every Shabbat afternoon approximately one hour before Mincha.

 

PARSHA CLASS A weekly Parsha class with the Rabbi takes place every Tuesday evening at 8:30 pm.

 

CHUMASH CLASS Jerry Halpern gives a shiur every Shabbat morning from 8:00 – 8:45 am.  Men and women are invited to attend. We are studying Toldos.

 

HISTORY CLUB History Club will meet on Sunday June 1 at 8pm at the Kustanowitz home.  We will see a film on the Shanghai Ghetto and discuss Farewell Shanghai by Angel Wagenstein, a novel about the experience. There are a few interesting memoirs about the period - the most fact-filled is by Ernst Heppner, the most entertaining is by Ursula Bacon.  Many alumni of that experience went on to significant success in the US.

 

A Glimpse Into Our Future

Shabbat, May 3             Sisterhood Book Club Meeting, 3pm at the Winchester home

Wednesday, May 7        Fair Lawn Families Celebrate Yom Ha’atzmaut 6:00 pm at the Fair Lawn Recreation Center

Monday, May 12            Shul Board Meeting at the Shul, following Ma’Ariv

Sunday, June 1              Salute to Israel Parade

Monday, June 16           Sisterhood Annual Spring Dinner, honoring Gail Plotnick. Details to follow

 

Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program

The Gita Cooperwasser Youth Program appreciates your ideas and suggestions.  The committee is focusing on creating a meaningful Shabbos in the Shul experiences for our kids.  Any thoughts how to accomplish this - programming ideas, references material, good books to learn from, or books to read the kids, meaningful experiences to pass on to the children of the shul - are more than welcome. Please contact someone on the committee: Ilana Schwitzer at ilanatree@aol.com, Renee Freund, Eli Greenbaum, Sara Bernstein, Arnie Spier and/or the Rabbi. 

PRE-K MINYAN We are proud to announce that have a Junior Congregation for those children in pre-K through 2nd grade to be led by Julie Goldstein.  Younger children are welcome when accompanied by a parent.


JUNIOR CONGREGATION The Junior Congregation for boys in grades 3-6 takes place in the Beit Midrash at 10:15am led by this week’s group leaders.
 
Tzeitchem L’Shalom/Boachem B’Shalom

Boachem B’Shalom to Gil Adler who is visiting for Pesach from Israel.

 

Please email rjsafier@optonline.net the name(s) of those members either going to, or returning from, Israel so they can be included in the weekly bulletin.

 

Tehillim List
Please say Tehillim for the following people: Ariel Ben Vera (Ariel Sharon), Menachem Manis ben Sarah Raizel, Yehudah Shlomo ben Yehudis Shosha, Taibi Yehudit bat Tama Gossya and Frumit Bat Yakira.

 

If you would like to add/delete a name from this list, please contact rjsafier@optonline.net

 

Sisterhood and Men’s Club

BOOK CLUB The next book club meeting will take place on May 3 at 4:00 PM at the home of Shelley Winchester 19-18 Angelo Terrace. Shelley will be reviewing the book The Zookeeper's Wife: A War Story by Diane Ackerman. From Publishers Weekly: Starred Review. "Ackerman (A Natural History of the Senses) tells the remarkable WWII story of Jan Zabinski, the director of the Warsaw Zoo, and his wife, Antonina, who, with courage and coolheaded ingenuity, sheltered 300 Jews as well as Polish resisters in their villa and in animal cages and sheds. Using Antonina's diaries, other contemporary sources and her own research in Poland, Ackerman takes us into the Warsaw ghetto and the 1943 Jewish uprising and also describes the Poles' revolt against the Nazi occupiers in 1944. She introduces us to such varied figures as Lutz Heck, the duplicitous head of the Berlin zoo; Rabbi Kalonymus Kalman Shapira, spiritual head of the ghetto; and the leaders of Zegota, the Polish organization that rescued Jews. Ackerman reveals other rescuers, like Dr. Mada Walter, who helped many Jews pass, giving lessons on how to appear Aryan and not attract notice.  This suspenseful beautifully crafted story deserves a wide readership." All are welcome!! For further information contact DonnaJGree@aol.com

 

SPRING DINNER Save the Date! The sisterhood annual Spring Dinner honoring Gail Plotnick will take place on Monday, June 16th. 

 

Please contact Steve Winchester at swinchman@aol.com to join the Men’s Club.  To join Sisterhood, please contact Gail Plotnick or Andrea Riskin at ajriskin@aol.com.

 

Ahavat Achim Misc.

FAIR LAWN FAMILIES CELEBRATE YOM HA’ATZMAUT Co-Sponsored by Congregation Shomrei Torah, Ahavat Achim, Fair Lawn Jewish Community Council, Congregation Darchei Noam, Young Israel of Fair Lawn, and UJA Federation of Northern NJ.  Wednesday, May 7 at the Fair Lawn Recreation Center  - 10-10 20th Street.  The schedule is as follows: 6:00 pm – View and discuss a short film about a modern day hero – Roi Klein; 7:00 pm – Mincha; 8:00 pm – Dinner and celebration – live band and dancing! Cost for dinner: (in advance) $4 per child, $18 per adult, $75 per family; (at door) $6 per child, $20 per adult.  For more information contact: Pinchas Shatz at pinchasschatz@ahoo.com or Ethan Katz at ethankatz@njncsy.com.  Send reservations to: Israel is 60 – 23 Chittenden Road, Fair Lawn NJ and make checks payable to NCSY.  For individual sponsorship opportunities contact drora@arussy.com.

 

RABBI GOLDSTEIN’S OFFICE HOURS Although Rabbi Goldstein is always available to the membership; he will be maintaining office hours in the shul every Wednesday evening from 8:30 pm to 10:00 pm. Those wishing to make an appointment to speak to him during this time may contact him in advance either via e-mail rabbi@ahavatachim.org or by phone 201-794-3927. Please note that the Rabbi's e-mails are forwarded to his home PC and to his blackberry.

 

BECOME A MEMBER OF AHAVAT ACHIM If you are not yet a member of Congregation Ahavat Achim; please speak with Eli Greenbaum (796-7081) or email eligreenbaum@yahoo.com for details on membership.

 

NOTICE TO THOSE RECEIVING ALIYOT At the conclusion of your Aliyah, you are asked whether you would like to make an optional Mishebayrach for your family.  As part of that additional Mishebayrach, you pledge to give Tzedakah in any amount of your choosing in behalf of those for whom you have asked Hashem's blessing.  Contributions to the shul can be made on-line via Paypal to treasurer@ahavatachim.org, or via MasterCard, Visa or check by sending the information to Aryeh Brenenson and indicating on the note or check "Aliyah Donation."  Thank you for your generosity and continued support of Ahavat Achim.

 

BAR/BAT MITZVAH The Fair Lawn Jewish Community Council gives a book as a present to all Bat and Bar Mitzvah children in each Shul.  If your child is going to be a Bar or Bat Mitzvah (or if they were recently a Bar or Bat Mitzvah), please contact Shirley Vann to receive the book. 

 

BOOK THE DAVID SCHWITZER SOCIAL HALL FOR A SHUL OR PERSONAL EVENT All bookings must be cleared through our calendar person, Steve Winchester. Please contact him at 796-1766 or swinchman@aol.com.

 

Easy Ways To Support Your Shul

SCRIP is available from Sisterhood for Food Showcase.  To purchase, please speak with Shelly Winchester at 796-1766.  Scrip is also available from the Men’s Club for Pathmark and Shop Rite.  To purchase, please speak with David Garfunkel at 791-1205.  You can pay for Scrip via Paypal to Treasurer@ahavatachim.org or MasterCard or Visa, by giving that information to Aryeh Brenenson. 

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES Memorialize a loved one and receive written notice of your upcoming yahrzeit every year. In addition, your loved one’s name will be mentioned during the public yizkor we recite on Yom Kippur.  Plaques are $250 for members and $350 for non-members.  Please note that as of July 1, 2008 the price will increase to $300 for members and $350 for non-members. For more information, contact Sophie Infield at 791-5518.

 

MITZVAH CARDS

Contact Eita Latkin at 791-8940 or via email at parentsof3@aol.com.   Mitzvah cards sent through Eita cost $3 and those sent to shul members will be acknowledged in the shul bulletin.   Mitzvah cards can also be ordered in bulk.  Ten cards will be sent to your home for $25.  These cards (which you send out yourself) cannot be acknowledged in the bulletin.

 

And We Remember…  During Nissan

 

Name

Hebrew Date

Shul Member

Relationship

Herbert Sturm

2

Robyn Safier

Father

Joseph Bickel

2

Jack Bickel

Father

Limor Adler

4

Ayala & Gideon Adler

Daughter

Rachel (Risha) Adler

6

Gideon Adler

Mother

Estelle Smedresman

9

Steve Smedresman

Mother

Daniel Mittelpunkt

13

Eita Latkin

Cousin

William Horwitz

14